by Brian G. Daigle The question of nature vs. nurture, regarding nearly all existing things, has been, I believe, adequately spoken to throughout our classical and Christian (albeit, Western) heritage, if we would only take the time to deeply understand and implement that wisdom. But first, we must recover this wisdom, for it has been buried under the rubble of modernity; I am thankful, for my own interests and gifts, to have found but a few beautiful stems shooting through this rubble, clear and beautiful enough to require that I would dig down to the root and source of such vivacious breakthroughs. While the previous installment accurately, though not completely, spoke to the nature of the child, the child as fully human, with a vocation to be fully human, this present entry will turn to just one important way we nurture the child. A home, like a classroom, is a work of art. More than that, it is a work of atmosphere. When I have the opportunity to observe a school or classroom, I approach it like a dinner guest. I approach it as someone invited to dine at a table I did not make, in an atmosphere I did not create, and be nourished by a meal I did not choose. I then, first, use my five senses to simply observe. I make lots of notes, akin to setting, character, and plot sketches from a great classic novel I’m reading. What do I hear? What do I see? What do I smell? Taste? Feel? What is the energy of the room or the school? What are the variant moods or emotions passing through the language, the relationships, the speech, the attire, the content, the art, the furniture, the protocol, the technology, the interruptions, the moments of quiet, the jokes, the facial expressions, the lighting, the things the characters touch and do. In doing this for many years, I have become deeply sensitive to a teacher’s slightest move and a student’s slightest response. And there are times I ask, “If my child were in this room, would I want them to be formed by and impressed with the nutrients of this academic and social meal, of this particular society and the leader who leads it, the teacher?”
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by Brian G. Daigle In order to make and support the claim that every home is a school, we first must be convinced that every child is a student, and this “studentship” extends beyond the formal classroom, beyond the formal school in which the child is enrolled. Not only does it extend beyond the classroom, the seedbed of the child’s student-nature actually begins at home and extends beyond that particular roofline. Therefore, every home is a school, not because every student brings their learning from school back to home, but because every child brings their innate sense of learning from home out with them into everywhere else they go, especially school. by Brian G. Daigle Parents are given one of the most unique opportunities on the planet. They get to form a child. They get to form a child in ways that can never be undone. And in so doing, they set a trajectory for the child, training and forming and shaping the child's faculties and competencies at the deepest levels, giving them a vocabulary by which they understand themselves and the world, and forming in them intellectual and spiritual architecture which will inhabit the child for the rest of their lives. But we have heard before that children don't come with a manual. And this is true. But parents do come with experiences by which to become the best parents possible. One of those key experiences is having attended some kind of schooling, and now having to choose a school for their child. And no matter what the parents' own schooling was like, and no matter the school they choose for the child, one of the most important analogies by which a parent can understand their job is that the home is a school. And this means that all the many platforms, ingredients, "assignments," subjects, teaching opportunities, etc. that are available to a school are not only available to the home, they are deeply and uniquely potent in the home. In the coming months I will be posting a series of short entries on "The Home is a School" where I will share some of the greatest wisdom and expertise I've seen in great schools, in great teachers, and how that same perspective and same methods can build better parents. I will also share how great parents avoid some of the worst teaching mistakes I've seen. Parents are called to be teachers, in the most profound ways; they will be teachers, the primary educators of their child. And it is important that the best tools and techniques in history's best educational models are applied to the home. Welcome to "The Home is a School." |
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